Insights

Welcome to a space for honest, objective self-reflection. I use tarot cards as prompts to help you think through difficult decisions, relationship challenges, and burnout. There's no magic or fortune-telling. The cards are simply a practical tool to help you explore your thoughts, challenge your assumptions, and see your situation more clearly.


Social Boundaries: How do I set boundaries in my own home?

Justice reminds you that healthy boundaries at home are about fairness, clear communication, and recognising that your needs matter too. You can be welcoming and considerate while still being honest about what you are comfortable with, what you can manage, and what you expect from others.

Read more »

Why do I struggle to feel secure with money?

The Hanged Man suggests that feeling financially insecure can sometimes come from looking at your situation through fear, old beliefs, or expectations rather than what is actually happening now. Taking a step back and looking honestly at your income, expenses, priorities, and options can help you work out what financial security really means for you.

Read more »

Why am I feeling stuck in my career?

The 7 of Pentacles suggests you may be feeling stuck because you have put in a lot of effort but are not seeing the progress or results you expected. Rather than simply waiting for things to improve, this card encourages you to look honestly at what is working, what isn't, and whether your current approach is still worth your time and energy.

Read more »

Relationships: How do I stop over-thinking someone’s behaviour?

The Strength card reminds you that when your mind starts overthinking someone's behaviour, the first step is to slow down your emotional response before deciding what their actions mean. You may not be able to control what someone else does, but you can choose how much time and energy you give to analysing it.

Read more »

The Devil Tarot: How can I look after myself when grief feels overwhelming?

The Devil can highlight the habits, thoughts, or expectations that can make grief feel even harder to manage. This might include isolating yourself, relying on coping habits that leave you feeling worse, or putting pressure on yourself to grieve in a certain way. Recognising these patterns can help you make kinder and more practical choices about how you care for yourself.

Read more »

Setting Better Boundaries with the Ace of Cups

The Ace of Cups reminds you that your home is your personal space, and it is reasonable to want that space to feel calm, organised, and comfortable. Setting boundaries may mean deciding what you are willing to hold onto, what you are willing to take on for others, and when you need the people around you to contribute rather than leaving everything to you.

Read more »

New Beginnings with the Nine of Cups: What Do You Need to Heal First?

The 9 of Cups reminds you that you don't need someone else’s approval or a future achievement to feel good about yourself. Before starting a new chapter, take time to recognise what you have already achieved, appreciate who you are now, and build from a place of self-respect rather than feeling like something is missing.

Read more »